Eat With Me Ah Ma

“Ah Ma, even though I see you often the only time I get to eat with you is during CNY” I said.

To which my grandma laughed.

I continued “Ya ma. When I eat you don’t want to eat. You wait for everyone to finish eating. Then you eat.”

According to her she eats last so that she and maid can take the last dishes. The thing is long before we have maid, she still eat last.

*scratch head

I guess some people enjoy eating last? Do you?

I’m almost always the first one to eat. Haha

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  • Reply annant October 17, 2009 at 10:02 pm

    my popo used to be very hakhei on dining table…keep asking people to sek do tit…
    now, after kena Alzheimer, she’s da first one to kiap dishes haha :silly:

    when popo is staying with us, i will have my meals with her…i miss her already πŸ™

  • Reply Che-Cheh October 18, 2009 at 8:11 pm

    Annant, hahaha your popo sound so cute. πŸ™‚ Sorry to hear about her Alzheimer.

  • Reply tekkaus October 19, 2009 at 6:07 am

    Aww….your Ah ma is so sweet! πŸ™‚

  • Reply xin October 19, 2009 at 10:50 am

    I think most old people do that.. even the same for my grandma. i guess they want us to have the best first? :love:

  • Reply Che-Cheh October 19, 2009 at 2:21 pm

    Tekkaus, she is sweet & generous. πŸ™‚

    Xin, ya they want us to have the best. LOVE! :love: :love:

  • Reply jam October 19, 2009 at 7:46 pm

    Do you stay together with your Ah Ma?

  • Reply keeyit October 19, 2009 at 7:49 pm

    This post reminds me my grandma too. She passed away 5 years lol… We miss her..

  • Reply Dawn October 19, 2009 at 7:57 pm

    My grandma would pile our plates/bowls full. The love for her grandkids! Enjoy the precious moments with your grammie. :love:

  • Reply Beng October 19, 2009 at 10:44 pm

    the pic has a watercolor look. i think she eats last as she doesnt want to waste πŸ™‚

  • Reply Che-Cheh October 19, 2009 at 11:40 pm

    Jam, she stay with my uncle but occasionally come and stay with us too. Kinda have 2 home. Haha

    Keeyit, I’m sure you feel like it’s just yesterday she was talking to you right? I feel the same way with my other grannie and grandpa.

    Dawn, Haha that’s so sporting. Ya I appreciate every moment with her.

    Beng, use filter in photoshop haha. I think she wants us to take the best food first.:smile:

  • Reply foongpc October 20, 2009 at 2:59 am

    Yes, most old people will want to eat last. For me, I will eat if I am hungry – first or last is not relevant. Haha!

  • Reply CheaHS@n October 20, 2009 at 1:03 pm

    Don’t have much experience with my Popo (mom’s mom) as she don’t stay with us. Agree with Beng most old folks are like “Bandaraya” whack what is left behind as not to waste. As for me would love to eat together.

  • Reply Che-Cheh October 20, 2009 at 8:23 pm

    Foongpc, I don’t have a preference to eat first but somehow I always ended up being the first. :silly:

    CheaHS@n, hi! Well I’ve called my grandma as Majilis Perbandaran. :tongue: Used to la. Not anymore because she must watch her eating now.

  • Reply Neo October 23, 2009 at 12:40 am

    Friend, next time let me eat first ok. :skull:

  • Reply Che-Cheh October 23, 2009 at 8:55 am

    Neo, haha sure sure.

  • Reply saoirse November 14, 2009 at 12:16 am

    She wants to make sure all of you eat full full before she finishes the last dishes… that’s love, che-cheh.

  • Reply Che-Cheh November 15, 2009 at 3:04 pm

    Saoirse, yeah πŸ™‚

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